[He was being insightful. He knew she had to get that out or it would just stew inside her forever. Still that struck a nerve and he shattered the tea cup he was holding in his skeletal hands.]

Do they stay dead? Have you really lost them Nami? Because believe me, I have lost a crew, an entire crew and I can tell you there's a grand difference between that and this. Most of the time they seem to simply go home if they disappear from here, or they come back within a few weeks time.

You think I don't know what it's like to die, and watch all my friends slowly die around me, being left in loneliness for half a century?! Trust me, this place is a picnic cakewalk full of sparkles and joy in comparison to what it could be. If you let yourself surrender to despair every time you might have lost someone, then the only one you shall lose is yourself. You will become a hollow shallow frame of the woman you used to be, and become bitter towards everyone you ever cared for.

So I would advise that you tread this path carefully Nami. It is understandable to grieve, but if you don't let yourself have fun, that grief shall consume you. I know this all too well.